The focus here is on intercourse itself and the pleasure with the act itself. Given a bad reputation for its associations with less mainstream sex acts, doggy style is a good position for when you just want a really good, hard pounding, regardless of whether you are top, bottom or versatile.Īs long as the bottom can relax their sphincter sufficiently, this can be immeasurably pleasurable for both parties as, yet again, it allows for prostate and penile stimulation. ‘Don’t you ever just want to be really pounded hard… you know?’ Yes, Charlotte, we do – sometimes you just need a good hard fuck, and this is the position for it. This makes for the easiest entry into his back passage. Protip: The ideal angle for the penis is at 15 degrees to the bottom’s belly. Probably the most obvious of sex positions as it exists in nature, like its name suggests.
Good For: Hard ramming, BDSM, prostate stimulation, long sessions, threesomes/group sex, fistingĭescriptive: The bottom is on their hands and knees, while the top takes them from behind. My partner enjoys it as he gets especially aroused by nipple play and being kissed on the neck – both very easy to do in this position. If achieved correctly with enough lube this can be entirely pleasurable for both parties, as the top of the head of the penis is being stimulated at the same time as the prostate. If into domination, this position can easily be achieved with restraints for the bottom. While thrusting, the top can lean in close for kissing, or lean back to play with other organs. With most erections, dicks curve up, meaning that in this position the head can rub against the prostate, causing the bottom intense pleasure as it is the male equivalent of a G-spot (sometimes referred to as the ‘P-spot’). This is called the ‘missionary’ of gay sex positions because this is the closest to heterosexual lovemaking that two men can get (or two women with a strap-on – there is no judgement here), as there is no self-lubricating frontal passage that allows for the biological necessity of sexual intercourse in men. Good For: Kissing, nipple play, prostate stimulation, threesomes, BDSM, foot playĭescriptive: This is where the bottom is on their back, legs akimbo and the top is inserting their member into the anal passage of the bottom These are terms used as adjectives to the act and not nouns to the individuals in the positions, and are not in any way intended to offend or demonise any who uses those terms in similar or different circumstances.Ī commonsense note: Please do bear in mind that if at any time either you or your partner is unhappy with any sexual encounter, it’s important that you both back off and discuss what does and doesn’t work for you. Note on terminology: throughout this article I will be using the words ‘bottom’ to describe the receptive partner, and ‘top’ to describe the insertive partner. Thanks in advance to my partner for his help in writing this by putting up with intensive interrogation at inappropriate moments. So here is the basic coverage of gay sex positions.
While some of us do so using relationships, and others do so having an orgy in a sauna, we all need a little help in the beginning.
We know how sexual intercourse works – one partner is receptive (‘bottom’), receiving a hard cock up the bum, and the other is insertive (‘top’), thrusting the hard cock up the bum – but usually we have to figure out for ourselves what works in bed.